Q Do you think you should only date one person at a time or as many as you want? Why or why not? Keep in mind I don’t mean “girlfriend boyfriend” I just mean seeing each other but you don’t have a title. How many people should you go on dates with or talk to? Do you think it’s dishonest to talk to more than 1, or no harm done?
A It’s not dishonest in any way. Dating in 2012 is TOTALLY different than when our parents were dating. When you are “dating” you are still getting to know each other and you’re still figuring out if you are a good fit for one another. There is NO REASON to shut down your options to other people unless exclusivity has been established. You don’t have to make out with the other dates. If you are more into one guy you can see him more than other men and just meet new guys for casual coffee dates, movies or just as friends. You never know what will happen. If you haven’t talked about being exclusive, he might not be thinking this way at all. He could be, but you won’t know until you have a discussion.