I received a letter from a reader and I want to address her issue… Should I move on? Let’s dig in.
Question: Me and this guy, I’ll call him D, have gone out for a week. He broke up with me 2 weeks ago. He told me he really wasn’t ready for a relationship. He still wanted to be single, but he wants to be with me. Recently, he found out I still had feelings for one of my ex-boyfriends and immediately came over to see me.
He asked about how things were going and how I was feeling. I told him I was having mixed emotions and how I still had feelings for my ex. And he kisses me randomly. He apologized but later that day, we made out, and today, we hung out and we things got a little out of hand.
He tells me that he really does have feelings for me and that he regrets breaking up with me because he misses me a lot.
He also said that he truly does want to be with me and I make him really happy, but he wants to be single. I guess he feels that way because he’s young.
He is telling you that he likes you but he wants to be single, and you have to hear what he is saying.
If you wait, you will be making out with him and waiting for him to become your boyfriend. He’s not ready. If you commit to him, it doesn’t mean he will commit to you. A guy can easily have a make-out friend who he feels comfortable with while he’s still looking for other women. Is that what you want in a man?
Something casual? It sounds to me like you are ready for a boyfriend.
If you are wanting a relationship, you need to move on and look for a guy who IS ready for a girlfriend or you will probably end up being something casual. Move on girl! There are tons of cookies in the cookie jar, girl! You can learn how to heal your heart, so you can move on to a man that WANTS to be with you!