Doesn’t it seem like attracting men should just come naturally for women?

Well… it does for the lucky few. But for the rest of us, we’ve got to work at it. We see women like that and it just makes our stomach turn.

There are women who sashay down the produce aisle in their yoga pants with no make-up, their hair in a pony tail, and men just can’t keep their eyes away.

There are women wearing a scrunchy without showering and still get hit on by men.

This plain Jane looks at the mangoes, while men can’t help but stare at her mangoes, and it’s not just her physical appearance. If you tap into your inner sexiness a man will always ask you out on a second date.

It’s something else she’s got. Women. like this are like delicious organic golden clover honey.

Men want to get in the hive and get a taste of her sweetness. He sniffs, approaches the fruit section, and then before you know it, she is digging a pen out of her purse to give him her number.

woman with long hair by a plant

How do you get a guy to notice you?

You be like that women with the mangoes.

She’s not as sexy as you or as smart as you, or dressed as nice as you. What the heck is going on here? Whatever it is, she’s got it, and you’ve got it too. 

Every woman (even you) has irresistable je ne sais quoi.

In the English translation, it literally means ”I don’t know what.”

Ok it sounds better in French, but at least we know what it means…

Or do we?

Maybe we just wish we knew what je ne sais quoi meant.

Whatever it is, it’s pleasant. We want it, and the men certainly want it. You can make men attracted to you easily. 

You can easily attract men by being in touch with your feminine essence.

But what does that mean?

It is not just a flip of your locks or having an hourglass figure. The main key of having je ne sais quoi is something that comes from within you, and it’s certainly not super model looks.

I’ve done a little (OK, a lot) of homework on what it means to have je ne sais quoi (trust me it took a lot of practice to live it) and I can teach you a couple “I don’t know what,” tips that will show you how to attract men.

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Get In Touch With Your Honey

Say what?

There is an old English proverb that says “ you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.” Metaphorically speaking… you are the honey and the men are the flies. Ok, in this case, we’ll make them the bears.

The vinegar is the negative thinking you have accumulated over the years. Vinegar keeps the flies at bay and the men far away. These kinds of thoughts keep your honey where no bear can reach. And it doesn’t matter  if you want to date a younger man or an older man.

So you want to get in touch with your honey and the only way to do this is to love yourself enough and to be selfish enough to be sweet… to yourself.

woman dancing with headphones on

I want you to develop a je ne sais quoi mantra for yourself.

Saying (or singing) this mantra will help you feel empowered, charming, indefinable, mysterious, elusive, and very sexy. Mantras are often practiced in the Eastern religions to enable transformation.

When you are aware of the change that you want to make on the insides it will show itself to the outside, to yourself…

…and as an added bonus, men will notice.

You can develop a practice to change your beliefs and patterns by creating new habits, and an easy way to create change is through the use of a mantra.

Here is an easy to remember je ne sais quoi mantra you can use anytime

You want it, You got it. You want it baby I got it. Ah. Aahhhh Hey… Ahhhh Ahhha… you get my drift.

Yes, I’m a cheesy dork…

…and being able to embrace your dorky parts is sexy to men

With this je ne sais quoi mantra you will busta move right out of your negative thinking. ]

When you are using this powerful and stupidly simple mantra you might even be prone to dancing.

And  you’ll definitely be strutting your stuff the next time you’re shopping in the market for some bananas and melons.

You’ll soon see that you and your fruit, your body, your lovable personality has je ne sais quoi that men adore.

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It’s juicy. It’s sweet. It’s silly. It’s fun (and the men won’t understand why they like you so much, but they will)

But you will know the secret of how to attract with men by just by loving yourself with this silly little mantra.

And check out this video where you will discover 3 simple tricks no man can resist.